Okay, I just came back from hearing Fiona Kenshole, my dream agent, speak, and she referred to this 2015 New York Times article about 36 questions to ask to “fall in love” that inspired this book. She got me when she said the article was based on a study.
My heart fell when I discovered the study came out over 20 freakin’ years ago. Why had I never heard of it? Well, better late than never.
Turns out these questions are worth a try. The Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley gives you the instructions here.
I’m going to try them. If you do, I’d love to know what happens.